Dirty talk sayings – what are they, exactly?
These are common sexual phrases that are used in bed between partners for the purpose of turning one another on. Dirty talk evokes images of sexual situations in the minds of those who hear the talk, and it arouses them. It can also be an arousal for someone to hear their normally soft-spoken, delicate worded partner swear like a sailor in bed. It is a novelty, and people get turned on by novelties, especially couples who have been together for a long time and need some variety in their sexual routines.
So, the best way to spice things up without having to go spend a fortune on porn or sex toys is to use dirty talk sayings. Both men and women can use these sayings to enhance the pleasure of their partner. However, it is usually women who seem to have the most difficult time thinking of what to say. Watching some porn movies to hear what the women on those films are saying will help you get an idea of what your partner might like to hear. However, it doesn’t even need to be that complicated.
Basically, women should know that men want natural expressions of pleasure from you, and if you happen to throw in a few dirty words while expressing that pleasure, then all the better. If you memorize what a porn star is saying in a movie, you may come across as too wooden and unnatural in bed, as if you were reading from a script. Men don’t like that. They want to know that you are really enjoying what is going on, and you can convey this information to them simply just by telling them what you like about what they’re doing.
With men, dirty talk sayings often come somewhat easier than they do for women. Men are used to talking dirty in their everyday lives with their friends, not in a sexual way, but often when describing sex to each other. They can easily take this experience and translate it into the bedroom with you. Most women enjoy hearing their men tell them what they want to do to them and how much they are enjoying what the women are doing. Men know this, and most of them will try to at least use dirty talk a little bit during sex.
There are no real cliched dirty talk sayings. It’s really all a matter of your imagination. Say whatever comes to mind during sex, and you can hardly go wrong (as long as you don’t call your partner by the wrong name). Be natural, be yourself, and say what you are feeling, and your partner can’t help but be turned on by it…and by you!